From a guy’s perspective, he might actually be feeling all of those things…in the moment. And in the case especially of younger gentlemen, they are less likely to be able to know the difference between what they’re feeling now and what they might be feeling 10 minutes (seconds?) from now. Or be able to act on a commitment when they don’t feel that way. Not that they are all that way, but it seems (from the stories I see here) that it’s rampant.